Saturday, September 14, 2013

The Book of Me, Written by You - Prompt # 2 - My Birth

This project begun by Julie Goucher has created quite a stir! There are lots of participants and many people are sharing their efforts. It's interesting how each prompt makes me dig really deep for the answers.

This is Prompt #2. My Birth - Where was I born, who was present at my birth, what day was I born, weight and length, did I have hair, eye colour, are there pictures of me as an infant?

Here is the story surrounding my birth.

I was born on a Friday. Just not last Friday!

Not long after the New Year 1959, Vivian was horrified to discover that she was pregnant. The birth control pill was new and Dr. Turner wouldn't prescribe it for her as he didn't trust it. Vivian was forced to continue using the diaphragm she had been using for birth control; obviously it wasn't reliable. She would be 38 in November and her youngest child (and only boy) was almost 10 years old. Eventually, she got over her initial shock and warmed to the idea of having another infant in her life. She loved everything about babies and was an excellent mother.

However, Fred reacted a little differently. He was angry from the moment he found out she was pregnant. He was worried about money as the business wasn't doing as well as it had been. As well, the men he worked with teased him about being a father again at the advanced age of 46 - incessantly. Fred did not like to be teased!

On that warm Friday in August of 1959, Vivian and Fred's five older children were at home. Vivian phoned Fred at work and asked him to come home to take her to the hospital. Fred, irritated that this was the third time he had been asked to rush home to take her to the hospital, told her to call a taxi. He felt she'd be in good hands as he had hired a private nurse to help after the birth.

“Today is the day!” Vivian thought as she sat in the back of the taxi on her way to the Payzant Memorial Hospital. Or, at least she hoped it was "the day" just as she had hoped the two previous times Fred had taken her to the hospital. Both times she was sent home to wait. It had been a long, warm summer and she was anxious for this baby to come.

At 7:00 that evening and after a few hours of labour and some ether to ease the pain, the 7 lb, blue-eyed, baby girl made her way into the world. Both baby and mother were healthy and doing well! The doctor liked to tease Vivian and had gone to the nursery to put a red bow in the baby's thick, dark brown hair before the nurse brought her to her mom. Vivian laughed when the baby was brought to her and she saw the bow.




After a week in the hospital, Vivian and little Vivian Pamela Wile went home from the hospital. Pamela's five older siblings looked after her from time to time. That is, when they could get her away from Fred who held her on his lap and played with her constantly. Obviously, he managed to get over his irritation!

The Book of Me, Written by You Prompt #1 - Who Am I?

I've been eagerly awaiting the first writing prompt for The Book of Me, Written by You and it finally came on Saturday, August 31! I originally posted this on my Genealogy On the Go blog, but decided to create a blog just for this project.

Julie Goucher will be leading participants on this journey for the next 15 months. If you want to know more, head over to Thomas MacEntee's Geneabloggers site - the prompts will be posted there each Saturday. Or, check out the Book of Me, Written by You Facebook page.

The outcome will definitely be interesting. It's an excellent opportunity to get to know myself and leave something for my descendants so they don't have to wonder about me. From time to time, I will post my writing here - maybe edited versions of my actual "Book of Me" entries. Some of the prompts might inspire some deeply personal writing that I will only share with my loved ones.

Here is the first prompt:

"Prompt 1: Who Are You?

The prompt for week 1 is a recognized psychology test: Ask yourself 20 times “Who are you?” Each time you should give yourself a different answer, and if you can easily go beyond 20 entries then that is fine too. This prompt is about how YOU see YOU."

It was a little difficult and I will admit that I read the lists of some of the other participants. However, I don't think they influenced my answers. My list is fairly simple and in the order that the words came to mind but I hope to revisit it periodically to see if the answers have changed, perhaps if my writing style has matured or maybe my comfort level with "me" has increased.

For what it's worth, this is me!

Who am I? I am:

Pam, Pamela, Pammy, Mom, Nana
Friend
Mother
Grandmother
Creative
Funny
Loyal
Intelligent
Curious
Kitty Lover
Genealogist
Family Historian
History Lover
Organized
Disorganized
Undisciplined
Generous
Book lover
Optimistic
Volunteer
Practical
Computer lover
Daughter
An unfinished work...